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I hope you are all prepared for what your leader has in store for you. You desired it, now you are going to receive it. Do not shed tears when you ultimately recognize that you were manipulated; and that the billionaire with the terrible spray tan was deceiving you.

You may celebrate as much as you wish for now. However, after the festivities have ended and you find yourself paying $50.00 for a t-shirt, and your precious eggs face skyrocketing prices due to his tariffs, and when fruit and vegetables become too costly for many to afford and starvation becomes a reality, we do not wish to hear your complaints.

We put in effort. If your job cuts your Christmas bonus or any bonus, we won't listen, just as you didn't listen. If you get laid off because your company can't afford to pay you anymore, we won't listen. This is your baby MAGA. You must take care of it.

You were warned. You were shown exactly who he is. But you chose to ignore the impending danger of your choices. Very shortly, you will regret your decisions. Until then, enjoy your victory, because you have just done us all in - including yourselves.

Welcome to the apocalypse. Humanity is the cause of its collapse. Humans are selfish, greedy, and arrogant. While not all, most are racist and a vast majority of our ignorant species thrive on any opportunity to tear another down for being different.

That's why you support him - he serves as a reflection of your beliefs and intolerance towards anything or anyone that doesn't align with your narrow-minded ideologies. By inviting a white supremacist into his home and sharing a meal with him, among multiple other blatant disgraceful acts, Trump further solidifies this connection. If this is not a clear warning sign for you to reconsider your stance, nothing will convince you.

As far as our troops and veterans go, he disrespects them openly and often; yet, you cheer his name. Now, you will see how this country will go to hell and how it will truly look under duress. Well done, America. Well done.

—Jeff Oliver

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Eggs were more expensive because of bird flu, which just crossed over to being a human problem as well. Just in time to have an antivaxxer in charge of the response. We are all going to die.

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Yes and now Trump has added Dr Oz to help him to pull off this scam.

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“The apprentice” needs to be cancelled & pulled of the air forever!!!

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Scam? Seems to me, ConOld has stock in the 2 major companies that make vaccine, he made millions from the covid vaccine already.

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If this is the way it is now? Bring it. Unfortunately, the majority of us cannot afford to leave.

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Where could we go?

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Portugal. (Not kidding)

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Looking into this seriously.

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In lieu of another country, at least a blue state.

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Canada or Mexico.

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That’s presuming Canada would allow us to cross their borders. I saw a post by a Canadian lady who said when Trump was POTUS, the US was referred to as a third world country in a Gucci belt.

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Ironic: we want to go to Mexico; some Mexicans are risking everything to get to the United States.

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I still have my European passport. However, it'll be difficult to extract my husband from his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. Just going to pretend I'm not a US citizen for the next four years.

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Maybe we will have a chance at not dying if we are humble enough to observe the proper precautions to avoid exposure, and to get immunized even if it is not legally required (I mean, are they going to actually delegalize vaccines?).

My point here is that the MAGA crowd will not exhibit that humility. I am thinking that if we take the proper precautions, and they do not, it will be they who die, not we. Then we can view the virus as retribution upon those who lack that humility. All we have to do then is ensure that all who want vaccines and other health measures are able to access them.

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But WHO will be producing vaccines? Kennedy? 😡

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The ones for the typical childhood illnesses and for that matter influenza and COVID vaccines are already being produced. We may not be able to get updated versions of them if Kennedy is installed in that role, but something is better than nothing. If God forbid he tries to shut down the FDA and/or the CDC, those organizations may have to commit civil disobedience and continue to function. It may be that the state of California will give them shelter.

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they will still be made in Europe and we can all take vaccine vacations there. And there will be an underground vaccine plan. While this sounds silly, it may happen. Now I wish more of his so called cabinet would quit.

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Not everyone can afford a vaccine vacation. But an underground vaccine plan would help out those who cannot.

Wouldn't it be funny if Trump is unable to fill his Cabinet because everyone ends up quitting before their confirmation hearings? What would be even nicer is if Trump, Vance and Johnson all quit or died peacefully in their sleep from natural causes before the inauguration.

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This is chilling and sounds maga/Jared kushner-like. Since we seem to consider ourselves educated, I believe we and our leaders must apply some serious moves to outsmart them. Also embarrass far right nationalist Christendom into oblivion.

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It is MAGA-like. It's high time for the MAGA crowd to have a dose of their own medicine. It seems they really may have to watch millions of their own people die before they will have even a snowball's chance in hell of wising up. And all of those deaths will be their fault, because they did not see fit to humble themselves and accept wise instruction from people who actually know what they are talking about.

The really bad part is that some of them are so far gone that they will consider themselves martyrs. But at least if they die, there will be fewer of them around to continue doing harm to the country.

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I'd like to believe that, but when you think nearly a million of their own died during COVID and they still don't seem to realize it was masks and vaccines that saved the rest of us, I don't hold out any hope that they will actually ever wise up.

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So, they will die. And it will be their fault. No one on our side will have had to do so much as lift one little finger to make it happen.

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That sounds great, unless Kennedy guts the FDA & CDC and fires all the scientists working night and day to develop these life saving vaccines.

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Then it would be time for California to give them shelter so that they can commit civil disobedience against the Feds and continue their activities on behalf of the American people.

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Big ask if no Fed funds underwriting the cost of vax to any of us.

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There are some extremely wealthy Democrats who would be able to easily fund vaccines for everyone in the United States who can't afford to pay for them, and still have money left over to fund research into new and/or updated vaccines. Think: Bill Gates, Warren Buffett, Michael Bloomberg. By my calculations, just these three have a total of 362 billion in assets among them. That is enough to buy the better part of 2 billion COVID shots at full price. Even people like George Soros and JB Pritzker pale in comparison.

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Let's hope he goes first.....

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Do we need a Brain Worm Pac? Donate to support Brain Worms? Increase production of Brain Worms? A St. Judas for Brain Worm Research??

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Also, one of the largest egg corps posted record profits over the last two quarters. Per corporate protocol, continue gouging at all times.

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i hope we all do die and soon. We can leave the planet to whatever plants and animals we haven't yet made extinct through land mines in Ukraibe and nuclear bombs. Humans are so disgusting - stupid aberration of evolution- we need to check out

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🙏Thank you for commenting!

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Well said, Jeff. Quite frankly, I can't wait to see the great smoking hole in the earth that once was America and I hope I'm still around to say I TOLD YOU SO to the MAGA crowd. It'll be worth it.

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Will it though? I, for one, would rather we not end up a smoking hole…

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Nearly half of us did not vote for this.

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Thanks for lumping us all together.

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Well said. Thank you. They deserve everything they get - and none of it will be anything they want.

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I agree. The MAGATS are gonna find out what they did to our country and democracy. Trump is a horrible human being in every way and doesn't care about us or our country! The sad thing is; their choice will affect all of us!

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“The apprentice” was/is a total failure & needs to be cancelled & off the air forever more! & his magats need to crawl back into their holes!

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WOW so true so terrible to think about what will happen. Some on CNN say well there were no wars when he was President- Like Biden is to blame for the current situations. - If Russia takes over Ukraine i do not think Putin will stop and Putin and the other strong men TRUMP adores will do what Harris said they will eat TRUMP for lunch wile laughing. laugh behind TRUMPS back WWE need to take back the House and Senate in 2027 this will be our ONLY option for Salvation and hopefully to reverse what TRUMP has done. Musk knows he can manipulate TRUMP All those immigrant families with one or 2 not legal residents as yet- along with the DACA group will be torn apart - not just Hispanics but Asians and others from Haiti and other countries- whose work is contributing to our economy and assisting with keeping inflation down- who will take these jobs many immigrants are doing BECAUSE US residents do not want to work those jobs?? i pray we can survive till the 2027 vote and Putin does not start his march iinto Poland and other countries.

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Or into the U.S.

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I once said that DJT would hand us over to Russia. I hope I'm wrong. In fact I've never wanted to be wrong so much in my entire life.

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Russia want America to be in such a mess you will ask for their help! You will be begging for assistance as China shuts down your ability to maintain your technology. Putin will agree to help as long as America does nothing in Europe. They will divide up the world into three parts, and you will be China and Russia's bitch whilst Europe burns. Putin signed into law yesterday the right to use Nuclear Weapons against a nation that doesn't have them if they are backed by nations that do. When he drops the bomb on Kyiev, what will the Orange one do? Run for his bunker with Musk and wait until the dust settles... He's got you all running around worrying about deportation... frankly, I think they will be the lucky ones.

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they took over the GOP long ago, they did it openly (remember when a bunch of them went to Moscow and met with the Russians ON OUR INDEPENDENCE DAY? )

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The Red Russian Republican Party.

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Putin's fellow travellers and useful idiots

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It’s unbelievable. I shudder to think. The hostile countries are able to reach us now. And I truly believe the war will be here

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Russia doesn’t want to take over Ukraine they will not set foot outside of there. But they may grab Transdniestria.

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Yes.. the turkeys voted for Thanksgiving.

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Jeff Oliver, bravo 👏. Perfectly said 💯🎯

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WOW...VERY WELL SAID!UNFORTUNATELY THE MAGA CROWD AND THOSE WHO NEED TO HEAR THE MESSAGE AND THE TRUTH,HAVE IGNORED IT FOR SO LONG THAT THEY ARE LIKE ZOMBIES JUST FOLOWING ALONG..ELON MUSK SO BLATENTLY STATED THE AMERICAN PEOPLE WOULD HAVE TO SUFFER FOR A WHILE,BUT THEN IT WOULD GET BETTER..MY GOD WHO IS HE KIDDING!!!

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He is kidding all the magats who voted for him

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I'm sorry, Jeff, but you're preaching to the wrong audience. We all agree with you; none of us voted for that turd. Your rant is falling on deaf ears here; we already know these facts, deplore them and as such, I'm looking for solutions to the problem rather than doomscrolling.

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I am entitled to express myself freely. Whether I am able to persuade even one member of the cult, it is considered a success. It is not your place to dictate what others should write. I am using my words as a means of finding a solution. Whether or not you choose to read it is not my concern, I will still express myself.

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DJT is as I have said many times, an Extremely Corrupt Mob Boss... Everything DJT Touches Dies... DJT can only function in Corruption... Because of the Cowardice of the GOP, all the Vaunted Check & Balances of the Constitution are falling.... Matt Gaetz will be his Hammer against Domestic Enemies... DJT will be the Enemy of the People as DJT Destroys This Country...

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Yup, plus ça change. My brother published a book of ditties in the Bermudian vernacular 30 years ago. Its title’s eponymous poem, _Oh Gawd, I Vish Dis Ig’rance Vud Stop_ — despite the difference in time, country, geography, demographics, culture, government, and population size (60,000) — is yet relevant, indicating that the problem is none of these, but the “selfish, greedy, and arrogant” human being. But we have now reached a tipping point; for I fully agree the apocalypse, not only of human beings, but of all species on Earth, is well underway. My brother (dead now these many years) wrote as much back then, but I include here only one verse, exclusive of the greater peril, of the poem’s seven:

Ver a werry Christian country, you'll be so glad to her,

Tho half the byes spend veekends gettin' hot on rum an' ber.

But ve go to church on Sundays an' show aryvun ve pray,

Dan go home an hate our neighbour for bein black or vhite or gay;

An' if religion is a crutch, val racism's jus' a prop.

Oh Gawd I vish dis Ig'rance vud stop!

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So true

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The USA is now the laughing stock of the world:

- the foes laugh at the utter incompetence the populus has that voted for him "in the greatest country in the world", the beacon of light in the western "civilized" world

- the friends for the same reasons but because of sarcasm

1933 Germany knocking on the door - the door of the USA. 91 years later...... And we all know how those 1,000 years of the III. Reich ended (correction: some of us know....). Just wait until DJT has the military sworn in on him.....

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That is exactly why I didn’t support this vicious man.

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The sheep will blindly follow the wolf's promise not to eat them, until it does, while the uninformed and misinformed will continue to believe in hateful rhetoric. They refuse to research and accept the evidence presented to them. Once they have reached a point of no return, their only concern is what their self-created God dictates. I apologize deeply that many of you are unable to recognize what is being presented right before your very eyes.

This is not just a political post, it is a post about how many of you have lost your humanity. You would rather perpetuate our suffering than promote unity and peace, and that is truly alarming. I stand for all of humanity, regardless of background, nationality, or walk of life. This is why I believe we will never be the same. Unfortunately, many are only concerned with their insatiable greed and have become so selfish that nothing else matters to them except for their desires. Don't let your subconscious bias affect your perception of others based on surface-level differences such as appearance, culture, or beliefs, especially if you don't personally know them. If you cannot see how wrong that is, then we know where the root of the problem lies, do we not?

In the end, this all comes to an end. Many forget this reality, as it has been a fact for every living creature throughout our planet's history. We all eventually die. None of this will hold any significance once the lights go out. So, why willingly make our lives more difficult and glorify it? Why allow the corrupt to have unchecked power? Why put those who do not share your appearance in grave danger simply because you are unable to release your hateful bigotry? Instead, why not strive to evolve as a species rather than revert to a terrible past? If hate continues to be taught, it will never cease. We have a responsibility to eliminate it, not fuel it. Unfortunately, compassion seems to be an elusive concept in this divided society. Humanity has broken its own heart.

Oh yeah, there are currently Nazis marching in Ohio, in 2024. Let that sink in.

—Jeff Oliver 🖤

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Nazis have been marching in American streets for decades. It’s what permission structure they are given in the next administration that worries me.

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Now, they will have free reign.

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Some States, the blue ones, are planning Resistance. I'm lucky to live in one whose Governor has told Trump Califirnia will protect its people.

Couple of thoughts. It occurred to me that as his parting act Biden can pardon all illegal immigrants who came to America before a certain date by granting them Amnesty.The Reagan administration

proposed this in 1986 I think and it passed. This would end Trump's basis for deportations.

If Biden won't do that why can't the Blue State Governors do it. After all this is an extraordinary government take over so extraordinary measures should be allowed.

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Extraordinary measures MUST BE TAKEN!

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Free range Nazis?

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You defend this? If so, I have nothing more to discuss with you.

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Of course not, you misread me.

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My apologies, we are all on edge.

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Right, a get out of jail free card. Then when desr leader makes a statement about how someone was eating to him, they can go assualt and/or kill that person and somehow, they'll be pardoned. This is what I see coming. I'm not as worried about the military as I am the militias.

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They will probably do dirty work for the big,nasty guy!!

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The Maga Horde only has hate and malice. Their only goal is to watch others suffer even if they have to suffer too. If any of you have heard of the Waukesha Christmas Parade Attacker, Darrell Brooks, the Maga Horde is the same as him, including Donald Trump.

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In my own family, I am the sole believer in democracy. One sister and her entire family are racists. The other sister and her entire family sold their souls to big pharma, to the monied insurance companies, and to their hatred of ACA.

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Everything is Everything…

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Garland has done our country a great disservice which is the understatement of the year.

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Garland is and was absolutely useless.. he had the office and the power to make a difference and he CHOSE to do absolutely NOTHING.. Garland is a COWARD .. in fact everyone in politics who refuses to stand up for the Constitution and stand for the COMMON MAN and the GOOD of the people by the people and for the people and for the rights of ALL should be fired from their position in government. Period

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Mary thank you.. you have helped keep me sane.. now if I could just get rid of my anxiety JFC I’d be great..

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You and several other million Americans!

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The incoming administration is working on doing just that, and the damage they are intending to inflict will be immeasurable, irreparable, and irreversible.

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Garland is the most accurate definition of a coward I have ever seen in my 57 years of life. His photo should be next to the word in every dictionary. Christ he should be like the traitor Benedict Arnold - his name - Merrick Garland - known to all and synonymous with coward and the man who essentially allowed the destruction of America to happen.

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Yes, he let the country down. But, I suspect he and his family were threatened by Trump and his crowd.

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Still a COWARD. Should have retired if was afraid. Let someone have that job who had a spine.

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Denise, perfectly said 💯🎯

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He should be charged with obstruction of justice

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Garland is not a coward. He's a judge. They don't actually take consequences into account because the Law as written by mere humans don't do that either.

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I agree. He should have filed charges against them all on January 7th 2021. He let us all have to suffer under trump the vile orange goblin.

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Coward or Complicit traitor?

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I often wonder if he was promised something …like a seat on the Not-So-Supreme Court..if he stalled, dithered and ignored?

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Remember when a cabinet nominee was disqualified because they hadn’t paid employment taxes for a nanny? And a presidential lost support because of a photo of him with a young woman not his wife? How naive we were back then.

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They were Democrats. Republicans are judged by a different standard. (Sarcasm intended.)

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Remember when Howard Dean slipped in the presidential polls for his scream of "Yeah" my how times have deteriorated.

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It’s almost laughable how far down the political involvement of the Rotten Pumpkin has sent this country.

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Isn't this what Ruth Ben Ghiat talked about in her book "Strongmen", the sexual deviance of the leader and his henchmen? That's what we are seeing play out here.

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Doreen Frances, exactly 💯🎯

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They consider women, in general, to be second-class citizens.

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The new Christianity—got penis, it’s white, you’re good to go.

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I call them worms, White Old Republican Men. They are vile, hateful and full of greed and malice.

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That is an excellent acronym, and I plan to use it from now on.

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I love it! I'm going to use it all the time now!

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I will be using this from now on.

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Deborah Murphy, perfect! Love this 👍

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So that's what RFK, Jr. had? Wondered about that. Jack must be spinning in his grave.

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Good description. I also call them MAGGOTS. A larva of a fly that feeds on carrion, garbage or crops.

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I use MAGAts - same idea, different spelling.

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And Jesus weeps.

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Donald is very infatuated with sex offenders, bc he’s nominated 4 so far. Gaetz, Musk, Hegseth & RFK jr , all have a history of sexual misconduct. They are his pals, he can relate to them. Maybe they sit at a round table and insult women by the daily. Who tf knows. All I know is that it’s an insult to every woman in America and I find it absolutely disgusting that the Republican congressman I. The ethics committee don’t see it. They’re all cowards!

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They’re all making a choice: Absolute power or doing the right thing. And we see which choice they’re making. This is what we’ve wrought.

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WE have not wrought this…we are just collateral damage…horrified and depressed.

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Well of course he's infatuated with them. He's one of them.

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Republican politicians actually HATE women and would love them to become second class citizens in their own country.

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No, Blacks are 2nd class. Women are way farther down on the list. Men have yet to understand that brains replaced brawn with the Information Revolution. They are still fighting last 50 millenia's war.

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53% of white" female Americans were not insulted" and I haven't seen the racial breakdown of the other female voters for him.

If you thought the "HOAX" of The COVID-19 PANDEMIC was horrific, just watch and compare BACTERIAL VAGINITIS TO TERTIARY SYPHILIS , with his proposed cabinet, that's what we All( not the 1%, of course) are in for!

MAGAPHILES & MTG, GURLLL, Y'ALL IN TROU-BUBBLE, Y'ALLS RECTUM HAVE BEEN REAMED by the 🍊🤮 and his Doppelganger. and they didn't use any lubricant...

🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂😀😀😀😀😀😀🫣🫢🤫🤐🙄

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Mary, I feel sick.😢

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I do, too. 😔

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It's shameful, I don't know how we will make with these corrupt lunatics in charge?

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It’s scary as I see these incompetents in full view for our global enemies to take steps against us due to our weakness. Apparently 1/2 of the country still doesn’t see the emperor and his cabinet have no clothes.

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Trump thinks the leaders of the biggest enemies of America are his BFFs, Putin, North Korea, China. Just because they use influence and disinformation as their weapons rather than long range missiles doesn’t mean they are friends. They will happily watch while Trump destroys the U.S. Economy.

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If only Joe were home.

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They are content with the knowledge that the emperor and his minions HATE who they HATE..and that is all they require ..reptilian brains at work.

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Ah, but emperors always self-destruct. Remember Caligula. My new mantra. Doesn't fix anything but it does make me smile.

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I have been feeling sick since the results of the election were announced.

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Thanks you justice department, you handed us over to an insane criminal madman. Just wish there was a solution to all this in the Constitution?

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There is. Fourteenth Amendment, Section 3. Despite what the so-called Supreme Court says, it's there and it's valid.

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What is NOT there is anyone with the nerve to use it.

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Sadly, the solutions are all in the Constitution, but the same madman who is bringing the rest of his delusional plans to fruition now is the one who started this slide into perdition in 2015 out of jealousy and hatefulness. The worst has been the spineless complicity of the members of congress, Our life saving countdown must center now upon the elections on November 3, 2026. Above all, pick your passion and get active with a strong group you see addressing your most pressing challenge. Sign up and start now talking and LISTENING. Be ready to elect 1/3 of the senators and all of the representatives. Don't allow this chaos to go on for anywhere near four years!

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I appreciate what you’re saying, but I do not believe there will be any further elections in this country.

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After the growth of spines in several Senators today, I must respectfully disagree. I still believe we will continue with all possible speed and discernment to welcome elections in 2026.

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Looks like the ACLU is the only group still fighting the Good Fight

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Southern Poverty Law Center is still working. Indivisible is active and progressive as are my fellow Veterans in Independent Veterans of America - they are scouting for people who would be interested in running for office, especially locally. And VoteVets is a good contact on voting rights and healthcare autonomy.

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Joe Zaragoza, there is.... it's the 14th Amendment §3. The problem is, the elected politicians are too spineless and cowardly to enforce it. That includes the current president. Then, there's the corrupt SCOTUS that would strike it down using some off the wall bizarre reasoning. Joe Biden could do something, but apparently chooses not to. It's very depressing and terrifying to consider the future now. 😢

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Life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. WORMs are entitled to pursue happiness now thanks to ground up ED pills and energy drinks. We are entitled to pursue happiness by resisting the a**holes.

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We will find out soon enough if Merrick was just a coward OR was about to be rewarded with a seat on the Not-Supreme Court.

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And these offenders will be representing the United States? How sad.

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Can you imagine a foreign nation wanting to host these people?

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Absolutely not.

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It's the worst 😫

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Thank you, Mary 💙, for keeping us informed.

My head is going to explode with all this news. 🤬

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That is how they take us down. Load on so much garbage that we get smothered.

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The absolute worst part of all of this is that Trump and his fellow perverts are working to normalize child abuse.

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Has been normalized at this point if we cannot get any resolution from normal people. Its frustrating how derranged and sick all of this is.

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As a survivor of child abuse, I hate the thought of people normalizing it. It has a very serious bad effect on the victims and recovery is difficult. The net result is that something that has long been widespread will probably wreck most children, and more often than not, those children pass it on when they become adults. That is both frightening and very sad.

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Preach! I'm a child abuse survivor myself. It is a cycle, which is why I chose not to have any children.

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It’s sick and horrible, and these people see no problems with it.

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Me, too. My body apparently shut down, so I never did get pregnant even though there was a definite possibility on several occasions. Thank you for making such a good choice. It's not an easy one, given that I was raised to believe I should get married and have children. I still sometimes feel the loss, but reason tells me it's good that I never had children.

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There is no “child abuse” here, comrade.

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Most molested kids are not wrecked. And most don’t don’t molest others.

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Actually most are not seriously harmed, only 23% are traumatized and badly harmed, effects are mild to moderate in most, by college half of women who were molested are over it, and 17% of them LIKE it. The typical reaction is ambivalence and confusion. A survey of teenage girls molested as kids asked them about their sexual abuse and half of them said “I don’t consider that abuse.” Typical reaction. Kids don’t know what sex is so the typical reaction is confusion or “that was weird.”

It’s BS that all molested kids are seriously harmed for decades or life. Sure some are but it’s not most. Kids are stronger than you think.

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I don't think I'm different from the majority of of sexual abuse survivors. I repressed my memories, and if you do that, you pass on the abuse. It's a reflex action. That's what happened with my parents. Perhaps you are talking about other kinds of abuse than sexual?

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I guess some people repress them. But they for so many kids it is so inconsequential (they just think, “Wow that was weird”), that they quite literally forget about it. I guess you can remember stuff later on that you forgot, snd that’s what a lot of recovered memories are all about.

Check out “The Trauma Myth.” It’s a book.

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I'm sorry, but I will not check out that book. Trauma is NOT a myth, in my experience and the experience of a whole lot of other people, both male and female.

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What she means is that not everyone who has bad things happen to them gets traumatized and s lot of the trauma is not because of the act but because of emotions generated by the victim which are unnecessary like shame and guilt.

She says we’re making all this stuff worse. We are harming the victims ourselves by our reaction to the event - by making a big deal about it. “Oh that was so horrible! That bad man! He did that terrible thing to you! It must have hurt you so badly! We will send you to a therapist to help you get better!”

The kid thought, “Whoa that was weird!” after getting molested because kids don’t know what sex is and that’s the typical reaction to getting molested. Well by freaking out sbout it we just made everything worse.

The kid internalizes that she’s been damaged, harmed, this terrible thing happened! And then the damage starts to appear which is frankly self-harming.

It’s written by a woman. She is very kindhearted and s good person. She wants victims to get better.

She doesn’t say trauma doesn’t exist. Of course it does and a quarter of molested women get traumatized. But it needn’t happen in every case.

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Nope. Check out Ritter et al 1991. I’ve known a number of women who got molested and liked it! And others were like, “Ah, you know, oh well,” totally nonchalant about it.

Also my aunt got molested as a girl and in those days (1940’s) they didn’t freak out about it. They treated like it was no big deal, just forget about it. “He was weird and stupid. But don’t let men do stupid things like that to you.” She got over it with no ill effects. I’m told that’s how it was treated back then.

The reason everyone thinks women are ruined for decades or life is because THOSE ARE THE ONLY ONES WHO SHOW UP FOR THERAPY, those are the only ones we see. All the others just go on their merry way.

There are mild to moderate short term effects, but 50% of women are over it by college. The effects are mostly shame and guilt, and we can train women not to feel this way.

People underestimate just how resilient kids are! Kids get over stuff. They get over lots of stuff

For sure 23% of women wgo got molested are traumatized and seriously harmed, MSF that adds up to a lot of women.

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Possibly these kids who get over it don't have constant repetitive injury from infancy to puberty like I did. But I read a book (from Ali Velshi's banned book club) by a woman who was raped at age 12, and who, even though she claims she has gotten a lot of healing, proves with what she writes about how she is currently, that she hasn't had real healing. I wonder how many girls who went through that were shamed into believe it was nothing. Maybe shamed isn't the correct word. I agree that kids can get over stuff, but I continue to believe that serious sexual abuse is not something one gets over without significant help.

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No that’s not so and I don’t even know what serious molestation is. I don’t like the term sexual abuse. In Denmark one half of women molested as girls said “I don’t consider that abuse.”

I met a woman recently who was molested for a long time by her father and she liked it! And that reaction is WAY more common than you think. I’ve met so many women like that.

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There’s nothing wrong with telling them it’s nothing. That’s how they will get over it.

Long lasting molestation from 3 to 12 could indeed be mare traumatic. You sound like you buy into the bullshit that everyone who gets molested is traumatized badly. I recently dated three women, all around 50. They’d all been molested and they all shrugged it off like it was nothing snd they were over it.

See, you WANT women to get traumatized and harmed to uphold this false belief you have that all molested girls suffer serious trauma. I want them to get better!

So that’s how we are different.

The last word is Ritter et al 1991. And it has since been replicated repeatedly.

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Nobody’s normalizing child molestation. That’s ridiculous.

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Child abuse?????!!!! 😂

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It seems like there is strong association between Republican fixated on power/strength and abusing women., especially underage ones.

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Republican men actually HATE women and want them to be second-class citizens in their own country.

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I am so far from done.

Unfollow if you are unable to acknowledge the truth. Unfollow if you are not willing to overcome your fear and stand up for the rights of women, the LGBTQ+ community, and all nationalities around the world. Like in every corner of this small planet, there are good people among us. And there are bad people too. The evidence is right in front of your eyes. You simply choose to look the other way, a choice that you have made. In the coming years, I can guarantee that these millions of choices will bring regret. We made an effort to bring it to your attention, but unfortunately, we were unsuccessful — we failed.

I have been quiet since the harrowing election results; until the last couple of weeks, in no way do they align. People were even leaving Trump's rallies. His open and blatant racism, transphobia, homophobia, and lack of concern for anyone, including those who voted for him and have ultimately destroyed us all, are clear signs of his dementia. Just for your information, those who voted for their chosen orange leader, are a part of the largest cult in American history. You may not realize it, as members of a cult typically do not recognize or acknowledge their affiliation.

It does not make sense that he won; I believe that his claim of election rigging in the previous election is exactly what enabled him to win this time. A requested recount, like he did in 2020, should be pursued. Dragging out this process will reveal any evidence and ultimately lead to his imprisonment for his many crimes. As all of you know, if any of us had 34 felony convictions, we would never see the light of day again. And yet, he is able to run for public office?

I believe that voters were paid off and a large number of votes were intentionally disregarded. A significant portion of the population reported not receiving their mail-in ballots. Given the influence of money on politics, it is highly probable that Trump, being well-connected to billionaires, utilized corrupt tactics to secure his victory in this election. I have daughters, and I want them to have rights. Just know that, when everything comes to light and you regret your vote, you must eat your words and take responsibility for it. Whatever happens from this point forward will not be the fault of those of us who tried to warn you.

Do you want to live under a dictatorship? Do you long for a life that resembles that of 1699? Well, congratulations, because thanks to you, it is on its way. Dark days are indeed ahead. What is coming is due to your cult mentalities. The signs were right there, in plain sight. When hell reigns down on all of us, do not come to us for water. We are all out. Do not feed us the line that we can disagree and still be friends, as adults. True friends are supportive and compassionate towards others and do not shame people for being true to themselves and loving who they choose. Those of you who knowingly put women's lives in jeopardy and are aware that they are dying are not friends of mine. By continuing to support the person responsible, you are exhibiting dangerous and irrational behavior - similar to that of a cult, to which you belong.

If you do not agree with any of these sentiments, you know where the door is. It has always been located in that direction. (Regardless of which way it may be,) Please find it and remain on the other side, as I will never condone hatred, racism, misogyny, or disregard for human life. Why are you concerned with the choices of people from other countries who seek a better life by immigrating here? Remember, you are an immigrant yourself. Eventually, their efforts will come to an end as a result of the authoritative figure that was elected. In the end, we may even find ourselves seeking sanctuary in another place. How ironic, don't you think?

—Jeff Oliver 👉 🚪

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I believe trump cheated his way on because that's what he does; that's who he is. I don't understand at all why Kamala would not order a recount as we KNOW that ballots were 'lost', 'not received from registered voters that KNOW they mailed them correctly, bomb threats made to disrupt the voting locations, and more - trump himself spewing the words 'I don't need your votes' at his rallies...wtf would he say that - he was SO SURE at that point that he was going to win...HOW????? He's always been that insecure little boy whose father dumped mash potatoes over his head in front of some family members who were getting dinner ready because he wouldn't stop bullying one of his younger brothers after being told to stop !!!!!!!!

* See substack poster Stephen Spoonamore's posts - he lays out the ways that the cheating could have been accomplished, and pretty easily for ppl like Musk who has access to what was needed to cheat. Kamala NEEDS to order a recount NOW.

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He did cheat--it's the only way he knows how to "win". And yes, there should be a recount--NOW. He didn't win fairly...and even with all the rigging, he only got 1% more. No mandate, no landslide.

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WHY ISN’T THERE A RECOUNT? ANYONE KNOW THE REASON?

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I want to know that myself! Biden is sleepwalking us into fascism, mouthing platitudes like "the peaceful transfer of power". This is not "business as usual"!

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I am with you, brother. I feel the exact same way. I believe he cheated, Why wouldn't he? He was facing prison and pure humiliation. He has no conscience. Thanks for your prose. Sometimes I think I am the only person who feels this way. Kudos.

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Here is the phone # for the Capitol Switch Board. Call your representation and all the Senators you have ever heard of. Mark Warner is a good one and on lots of Committees mORGAN GRIFFITH IS REPULICAN AND VOTES ON party lines. Leave messages for all of the no goods. Find out who is elected from your state.

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I write my representatives and senators at least twice a week-they are both Republican assholes- the always embarrassing hillbilly Harvard and Oxford trained John Kennedy (which only makes things worse) and Steve Scalise (another Trump suck up)-need I say more? I do appreciate your information though-thank you. I have Switch Board number on redial. Seriously. I call and write so much-last year Pelosi sent me an incredible calendar from Washington. LOL.

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The cheating comes from deciding who and who cannot cast a ballot.

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And now Trump and creepy Mike Johnson have figured out how to suppress women's votes. They've got control of our vaginas. What's next?

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The only reason that the Ethics Committee would refuse to release the report is that what it would reveal is worse than what has already been revealed. During Gaetz's confirmation hearings, the Democrats must repeat that again and again. Then they should challenge the Republicans that, if it's not true that they are covering up something worse than what has already been revealed, all they have to do is to release the report.

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Complicit in their denial of their job responsibilities thus treasonous.

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Let's not get carried away. Article III, section 3 of the Constitution provides, "Treason against the United States shall consist only in levying War against them, or in adhering to their Enemies, giving them Aid and Comfort." (The United States was plural in those days.)

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Henry,

I agree with your Constitutional analysis 👍, but to these criminal ( yes 35 times or more in accumulated felons) there is no Constitution,no rule of law.!!!

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What do we do when nothing matters?

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“Is a dream a lie if it don’t come true? Or is it something worse?”

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I see you’re as depressed as me

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